Amaia Odriozola
Jul 10, 2026 – 10:24CEST
Fortunately for Wallis Simpson, TikTok did not exist on August 3, 1950. Had it happened today, her arrival at that wedding would probably have become a viral video, followed by thousands of indignant comments and, who knows, perhaps even a glass of wine spilled not entirely by accident on a guest’s dress. Because yes: she arrived late, dressed in white, and stole all the attention
That morning in Cannes, the U.S. millionaire Herman Livingston Rogers was marrying Lucy Fury Wann, the widow of British Air Commodore Archibald Herbert Wann. Rogers was no stranger to international high society. An engineer educated at Yale and MIT, he had inherited a substantial fortune and had for years been one of the Duke and Duchess of Windsor’s closest friends. He had taken Wallis Simpson in after the turbulent end of her first marriage, acted as an intermediary with the press during Edward VIII’s abdication, and even accompanied the couple through some of the most delicate moments of their exile in France. When Edward and Wallis married in 1937, it was Herman himself who gave the bride away at the Château de Candé. But Herman was more than just that.
According to Andrew Morton in Wallis in Love, after the death of Katherine Moore, Herman’s first wife, Wallis believed the time had come to deepen her relationship with the man whom, she would later say, she considered the only one she had ever truly loved. While she was traveling in the United States, another Riviera regular, Lucy Wann, won over the millionaire. Upon learning of the engagement, Wallis sent Rogers a telegram bearing a line that today sounds as though it came straight out of a Hollywood script: “Do nothing until I return,” signed, “your guardian angel.” She did not arrive in time. Or perhaps she did, depending on how one looks at it. And she arrived dressed in white.
The ceremony was already over, but the reception was still underway. And then she appeared. Morton recounts that Wallis seemed determined to draw attention away from the newlyweds, making a late entrance in a white tulle gown that quickly became the focus of the room. Lucy’s retort was equally sharp: “You have got your king, but I have got your Herman,” she told Wallis
Seen through the eyes of 2026, the episode seems tailor-made for social media: a former lover, a white dress, a theatrical entrance, and a bride forced to share the spotlight on her wedding day. Yet the reaction at the time was different. What scandalized people was not so much the color of the dress as the performance itself
And that is the crucial nuance in this story. Although wearing white to someone else’s wedding is now considered one of the greatest breaches of etiquette, for much of the 20th century the rule was not nearly so strict. In international high society, overshadowing the bride was frowned upon, certainly, but it was more likely to happen through extravagant jewelry, a Balenciaga fresh from the atelier, or simply by being Wallis Simpson — the woman for whom a king had given up the British crown. The white dress was merely one element of that display.
Another wedding that frequently resurfaces on social media whenever this debate is revived is that of Jacqueline Bouvier and John F. Kennedy in 1953. Lee Radziwill was her sister’s maid of honor and wore a dress of such a pale ivory shade that, in photographs, it appears almost white. At the time, no one interpreted it as disrespectful. On the contrary, it was common for U.S. bridesmaids to wear cream or ivory tones — a tradition that remains common today, for example, within the British royal family. Remember Pippa Middleton at the wedding of Kate Middleton and Prince William? Or when, as a guest at the wedding of Arabella Musgrave and George Galliers in 2014, she herself wore ivory-white to the ceremony? Would Lee be “cancelled” today? Would that be considered “worse” than looking as dazzling as the guests at Nate and Cassie’s wedding in Euphoria?
The explanation for the taboo goes back much further. Although it may now seem like an age-old tradition, the white wedding dress is a relatively recent custom. It was Queen Victoria who popularized the choice when she married Prince Albert in 1840 wearing a cream-colored silk gown trimmed with Honiton lace. Until then, even royal brides married in red, blue, silver, gold or simply in the finest dress they already owned. White could be among those options because it symbolized the height of luxury: it was difficult to keep clean and therefore a visible display of wealth.
The real revolution came after the Second World War. Growing economic prosperity meant that more and more women could afford a dress intended exclusively for their wedding day. Hollywood did the rest. Images of Grace Kelly marrying Prince Rainier of Monaco in 1956 cemented the ideal of the bride in white as a genuine fairy tale. Other weddings also left a lasting mark on the public imagination, such as that of Bianca Pérez-Mora Macías, better known as Bianca Jagger, who made headlines in 1971 when she married Mick Jagger in Saint-Tropez wearing a white Yves Saint Laurent jacket over her bare torso, paired with a long skirt and a wide-brimmed hat (a look that inspired Dua Lipa for her own wedding in 2026); and that of Diana Spencer and the then Prince Charles in 1981, watched by 750 million viewers around the world.
White had ceased to be merely an elegant color and had become a symbol: that of the undisputed star of the wedding. “I find it quite amusing that one of the most difficult colors in the palette is the one women traditionally choose to wear on one of the most significant days of their lives,” Lorenzo Caprile told EL PAÍS
In his view, white is a difficult color “because of the way it reflects light. For white to suit you, you have to have very striking, dark coloring. On pale women it washes them out even more.”
In any case, there is now a broad consensus — at least in the West — that guests should not wear white to a wedding when there is a bride
“The simple answer is no,” declares the U.S. edition of Vogue. On TikTok, the debate remains lively: one of the platform’s most-viewed videos on the subject, with more than 28 million views, shows two wedding guests dressed in white and ends with a plea that captures the prevailing sentiment online: “Please never wear WHITE at someone’s wedding. It is sad and disrespectful.” The platform is full of videos calling out friends, guests, and even mothers of the bride who turned up in white, much to the collective disapproval of viewers.
Perhaps that is why the Wallis Simpson anecdote feels so fascinating today. It illustrates how changing social attitudes transformed the meaning of wearing white, and why something that would now provoke outrage was interpreted very differently 70 years ago
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